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BaD: In which the more things change, the more they stay the same
Published on February 18, 2014 8:09 PM
Part of the Series - Blog a Day (BaD) 2014
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Last night at work, I resumed additional duties at the 8th grade building. The new employee - a woman in her 50's or early 60's - was there for 2 days before she decided she couldn't hack it anymore. When I arrived on campus, the first thing I had to do was meet her so she could give me her building keys. Before she left, she asked me if I could clean the building around/under 4 hours like she was asked to (it's a part-time gig). I said, "Yes, but mostly it's closer to 3 - 3 1/2 hours and it depends on the mess". I could tell she couldn't believe that.

She clearly wanted to get out of there (but wasn't rude at all) so I didn't waste time telling her what I knew would fall upon deaf ears: You'd be able to complete the task in that time after you've been around long enough to get a understanding of the building and develop a routine and you can't do that in 2 days. Maybe a week at least. I don't know why you didn't leave or accept the job after you were shown the building and all of the duties involved. I don't know why you wasted our time. I don't know why you are another in a long line of people that we've given a chance for work only to have them throw the job back into our faces for a variety of reasons: You don't pull your own weight (and you should more often); You see this job as a long-term prison sentence (and it isn't); You feel this work is beneath you and you deserve something better.

As for that last point: I've worked at this job for nearly 9 years now. If I truly hated it or felt trapped, I would've left long ago. Any job that you can live off on (pay the bills, shelter and feed yourself) is NEVER beneath you; millions of unemployed people who want work know the value of that. As for deserving something better, get in line. It's been said that this is a generation of entitlement (and it's true) but that's a product of a society that inspires that thinking across all ages. If there was something that you truly were going to do, why aren't you doing it? Because you were never going to do it anyway. You'd have to bust your ass regardless.

So you look down at a job like this. And you probably can't think too highly about the people who do it for a living. Whatever. I pay my bills, my taxes. I'm able to travel, to eat, to dress myself and to enjoy the many creature comforts. There are many in this country who would like to be able to do the same. If you just wait around for the thing you want, it'll never come to you. You have to go after it and get it.

As I said before, this has happened before on the job. Lots of people came and went, giving up for similar reasons, wasting our time, causing myself or my boss to check on their work and give it another pass so that we wouldn't hear complaints the next day. If you don't understand the stakes involved in the job you apply for (even if it's just short term), you shouldn't get involved. If you do, you also shouldn't quit so easily.

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Posted on February 18, 2014 8:20 PM

Sorry to hear that.  I know exactly what you mean.

Posted on February 18, 2014 9:02 PM

Only job I ever quit after a day was door-to-door sales, because my anxiety crept up a lot harder than I thought it would. Otherwise, I've always given two weeks at least before not even quitting, but just going back to college too far away.

Posted on February 18, 2014 11:21 PM

I've had rough jobs, but some of the ones other people would have thought beneath them suited me just fine.  it's all relative.  if you like it, then what the hell.

Posted on February 19, 2014 6:12 AM

I worked maintenance in a forest resort development for a while and loved it. Lots of variety of tasks, beautiful surroundings, and physical work. I went to college, but when I got out, I didn't have much interest in sitting in a desk all day. I tried but none of those jobs lasted more than a few months. I got depressed doing them. I'm an outdoors person and like to get my hands dirty. I often think I must be stupid or something, but I just can't hack office work. I wish I'd gone to a Trade school instead 'cause when it comes to a 40 hour work week, I'd rather do something with my hands.

Posted on February 20, 2014 2:48 PM

Losing my eyesight from staying indoors and staring at computer screens all day, both myself and my friends in research-heavy Master's programs know exactly what you mean.

Posted on February 19, 2014 6:32 AM

There's no shame in honest work. I really don't understand people who look down on blue-collar type jobs. Without janitors,recaides,garbage men,maintenence staff,and cleaning crews the world would be a filthy and dangerous place to live in!

Posted on April 10, 2014 7:39 PM

That's what I think to when it comes to jobs these days. If it pays the bills and is able to get you by, who cares what kind of job it is. I've worked the battery of various jobs and only one of them felt like a "job trap". sure if your not happy with what your doing is one thing, but if your comfortable and you live well then I find that a better option that trying to hunt down "teh job" that pays a fortune but might make you feel bankrupt.