Nintendo just can't win. If they keep things the same, people complain about it. But when they try something new, people still complain about it. Most recent example I can think of is Breath of the Wild. They did a lot of new things with it, and people complained that it wasn't like a true Zelda game (heck, even I griped about it to some extent). But I did spend 60 hours on it and beat the game, so I still must've enjoyed it somehow.
This is why I don't complain about every Pokemon game being the same. While I may be tired of the formula myself, for every new generation of Pokemon games is a new generation of kids to enjoy them, and it's all new to them. Usually if I do complain about a game bieng too similar to something else, I'll add that 'if you like such and such, you'll like this, too' or something like that.
As far as gaming communities go, I even have trouble fitting into a lot of those. I don't know if it's because my tastes in games is too weird or I'm getting too old or what. Even at shows like PAX, I'm starting to stick out like a sore thumb because I'm one of the oldest people there. It just feels kinda weird.


